as I sit in this hotel parking lot, hair still wet from my shower, decompressing from what just happened in room 143.
This is the second time I’ve met jack. He’s old. And I mean old but claims to be a sex maniac. Problem is, couldn’t see his dick even with a magnified glass… No joke. Never have I seen a small cock. Never.
He gives me my allowance in a purple and white envelope. He takes his shirt off as I make coffee in the shitty hotel coffee maker. I’m trying to stall. Make some coffee, talk about his day and recent trip for work. Anything to make this go by quickly.
It’s like I’m an actress. Putting on a show for this guy. He wants to make me feel amazing but all I do is think of someone else. Haha he’s gross. The worst thing about him is the way he kisses. He straight up assaults my mouth with his tongue. Like he made out with my entire face, stabs my mouth with his tongue and “inspects” ,as he calls it, my gums and teeth…. With his tongue. I not only wanted to cringe but burst out laughing.
He went down on me for like 40 min. I pretend I like it. And show him what to do. I kept thinking, the longer I do this the less time I have to do things for him hah. Sneaky bitch I know. He loves my breasts. Can’t stop touching them for nibbling them. I let him do what he wants so he’s happy. Whatever to make the time go by. No sex today. I had to run to work.
Then we shower. I love this part. Because he washes my whole body. I bought this vanilla scrub from target which felt good for me and made him excited. He washed my hair for me, and my legs among other things. He kept wanting to have sex in the shower but I just down played it.
This is going to be my last time with jack. He just doesn’t know it. Although I need his allowance, sugar dating is NOT about being disgusted by who you’re with haha.
In better news, the sweetest of kisses come from familymandaddy. He’s going to be the one I just know it. He has invited me over for lunch tomorrow at his place in the burbs after I get off work and between my final exam study session. He bought me stuff for my car! And has called me every night before bed. He asks first though, to make sure I’m okay to talk. I genuinely laugh when we talk. He’s hilarious. How did I get so lucky. If the sugar is good, I never went to let go of him. So excited for tomorrow.
More to come..
back to basics.
What does SLSBxxx stand for? Secret life of a sugar baby xxx. Meaning, dating men who give you allowances, treats, gifts galore, spa treatments, vacations etc. men who are keen to spoil and make you a queen!
SLSBxxx is my way of describing what I do. It’s my secret life of being a sugar baby, juggling multiple daddies at a time- paying for school, paying for my apartment, helping me live a life I couldn’t afford on my own.
I became tired of conventional dating and decided to do something a bit different, something that takes courage, something that takes balls. Something that made me feel powerful.
Who knows, this may not last long but for now it’s pretty fucking genius.
More to come
Hey gals! New daddies on the horizon!
I was going to meet with dickpicdaddy after class on Thursday but he kept sending me dick pics haha it was too much. And turned me off. No time for that.
I’ve been swamped with emails and messages from all my POTs. I have a busy weekend and week ahead.
I had a gorgeous date last night with a new daddy. I’ll call him familymandaddy. He’s the SWEETEST man alive. Got us this gorgeous table downtown for dinner, we walked along the Chicago river, stopped for a beer, sat down to talk, got candy on Michigan avenue. He was going to take me shopping but he suggested we got shopping as our second date. He’s the best. I like him more than any of my other sugar daddies. He’s such a gentleman. He bought me weather mats for my car!! He noticed I was still using the paper mats from when I bought the car, so he said he wanted to do that for me.
I can’t wait to see him again.
Just got a spa package from auroradaddy. He’s younger, in an unhappy marriage. Works a lot and just wants to feel appreciated. He said he woke up and I was the first thing he thought of. He isn’t a millionaire but is so keen on making me happy. He’s a keeper.
Michigandaddy and i might meet up tonight for dinner. Our date together was so fun and his surprise cash at the end of the date was the icing on the cake! He’s so far away though, makes it hard to get over there.
Lawyerdaddy to took me to barneys for shopping dropped off the face of the planet! Oh well, no harm done!! At least I got a gorgeous perfume out of it 🙂
Youngdaddy with the smiles, all smiles, is amazing. He calls me dude and it feels like he’s my best friend haha. As ridiculous as that sounds. I have such the hots for him.
I’ve got three dates next week with new POT daddies xoxo so excited
This is turning around ladies!! I’ve learned my lesson to be careful, never to be as naive as I was. And I’ve learned how to carry myself when talking to potential daddies. I’ve scared off a few who could’ve absolutely been scams. 💪💪💪💪💪 feeling powerful again! And in control of my game.
Bring on the luxury!
More to come
Wow. The most awful thing happened. I got involved with a manipulative and horrid daddy.
He was cruel, vindictive and scary.
Watch out ladies, some men are too good to be true. This son of a bitch has the audacity to threaten me, demand I do certain things and no amount of money is worth jeopardizing your safety, wellbeing and sense of peace.
I thought about going to the police and asking how I could protect myself. Perhaps his theeatening words are empty but I felt in danger.
What a bastard. Be careful who you interact with because all of a sudden the tables could turn and you could be a part of something you never imagined you’d be a part of.
** in better news, I met two POT daddies one who is incredible. He has the best smile and the greatest personality. A total sweetheart. And the other, who we’ll call Michigandaddy is a bit older, but also a total gentleman. Although Calidaddy was a fucking prick, there are still men out there who know how this is supposed to be and who know how to treat a woman. Do not jeopardize your own dignity and self worth. No money is worth that. Be safe, be careful, have fun but don’t lose sight of who you are.
Until then, slsbxxx
Ladies! Comment below if you have been a sugar baby or are one now.
I want to know the best way to keep this secret or how to balance multiple Sugar daddies at a time. Let’s help eachother out ladies!!
I’ve been thinking about why more girls don’t do this. It’s an attractive set up, a situation that looks glamorous yet I can see why there isn’t much follow through. I’m sure people sign up, troll through the sites yet never actually meet anyone in person.
It’s much like online dating but with money involved.
That’s the weird part- the allowance. I’ll be bringing up allowance with my new SD on Thursday when I see him. He’s coming over for the first time. I’m really excited yet nervous because this would be the time a normal couple would sleep together.
I found my SD on Facebook. I then saw his wife on Facebook. He told me they don’t get along well and he’s in the middle of a divorce. He’s no longer attracted to her and never really thought the marriage was right from the start- he had his doubts.
For some reason, although it makes me sad for their relationship, it encourages me to show up for him in a way that excites him, drives him, motivates him, moves him. Not only to spend on me and make me feel like a fucking princess but so that he stays attached to me for as long as possible.
I have a date with someone else on Friday. But I have a feeling this is going to be an arrangement that revolves around sex. As much as I need the cash badly this month, does that cross this fine line of prostituon? Many debate over this issue- whether sugar dating is considered prostituon. People have their opinions. Strong ones. It’s something I’m struggling with myself.
I will let you all know what happens this Friday. Fingers crossed it’s a meeting for establishing an all encompassing relationship and not simply a sexual one. But would it be so bad so have sex with someone you like and respect but that’s all you do? The exchange of money is where it gets tricky…. But a girls gotta pay the electric bill right?
More to come.
I have officially become a sugar baby. Just a week or so ago, I found myself signing up for sugarbabby/sugardaddy dating sites. Seekingarrangement.com, arrangementfinders.com and others. I stayed up all night searching and searching the sea of men who wanted to pay the big bucks to date beautiful women. I began to message a few gentleman who’s desires very much aligned with my own. Being new to this experience, I was naïve in how I approached certain men. But as I familiarized myself with how to carry myself, I was getting messages back! I was thrilled. Could my rent really be paid for in full by some wealthy man in Chicago just for going out to dinner with him a few nights a week?
Its possible ladies. I am not advocating for this lifestyle, although so far it is working for me. This is just the start- lots could happen, it could get ugly, or it could get real luxurious on Lawyer-daddy’s boat.
I have been on a few dates and am officially a baby…
more to come